LIES WOMEN TELL TO THEMSELVES

Author: Lawlahdey (edited by Routenaija)

It pains me when I see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world…”No time to check time…”

You think that every ‘perfect’ marriage that you see, that that you envy, that you hope for, has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??

You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven’t had their own share of marriage trouble??

See, it takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.

You can’t stay with a man that won’t cheat at all? Then walk outta the relationship and don’t ever go about saying “All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their lives.”

You think Tonto Dike didn’t think that Churchill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?

You think Tiwa Savage didn’t think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that Tiwa doesn’t?? Why wasn’t Tiwa able to keep him down, even with everything?

Even Beyoncé suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ… And you are here forming, “I can’t stay with a man that isn’t hundred percent faithful??”, “I can’t ever share my man??”

Fine. You can’t. Then leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man. If a man loves you, he will probably cheat in the hope or fear that you don’t find out but don’t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere…because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect man and God will answer it. Well… Reality check 90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain’t better than them.

STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES!!

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can’t cheat on their woman, I don’t even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.

Maybe some 10% of you (tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature; you can’t stay faithful to one woman.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets or elsewhere and will begin to get aroused.

PS: Ladies, don’t hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

There is no such thing as a perfect person. There is never a relationship without problems. You have to learn to deal with your problems with your man other than by leaving him because chances are that the next one you will meet has also been left by some other woman.

The world just keeps going round.